LOVE😘

Love  is a very strong feeling of affection towards someone who you are romantically or sexually attracted to.

Our love for each other has been increased by what we've been through together.It is time to change the meaning of the word “love.”

The word is mostly used according to the first definition given in the dictionary: “an intense feeling of deep affection.” In other words, love is what one feels.

After years spent speaking with couples before, during and after marriage; and of talking to parents and children struggling with their relationships, I am convinced of the partiality of the definition. Love should be seen not as a feeling but as an enacted emotion. To love is to feel and act lovingly.

Too many women have told me, bruises visible on their faces, that the husbands who struck them love them. Since they see love as a feeling, the word hides the truth, which is that you do not love someone whom you repeatedly beat and abuse. You may have very strong feelings about them, you may even believe you cannot live without them, but you do not love them.The first love mentioned in the Bible is not romantic love, but parental love (Genesis 22). When a child is born, the parent’s reaction to this person, who so recently did not exist, is to feel that “I would do anything for her.” In the doing is the love—the feeling is enacted. That is why we often hear the phrase “you don’t act like you love me.” We know in our bones that love is not a feeling alone, but a feeling that flows into the world in action.

Between human beings, love is a relational word. Yes, you can love things that do not love you back—the sky or a mountain or a painting or the game of chess. But the love of other people is directional. There is a lover and a beloved—you don’t just love, but you love at someone. And real love is not only about the feelings of the lover; it is not egotism.

It is when one person believes in another person and shows it.Of course it is possible to perform all sorts of duties for someone and feel little or nothing for them. Love is not about being hired help. Love is not an obligation done with a cold soul. But neither is it a passion that expresses itself in cruelty, or one that does not express itself at all. The feeling must be wedded to the deed.

We would have a healthier conception of love if we understood that love, like parenting or friendship, is a feeling that expresses itself in action. What we really feel is reflected in what we do. The poet’s song is dazzling and the passion powerful, but the deepest beauty of love is how it changes lives.

                  Love yourself too

Love in simple words is- Love is a mix of feelings and actions that shows a deep liking for someone or something. Romantic love can lead to things such as dating, marriage and sex, but a person can also feel for friends, such as platonic love, or family.

Disadvantages of love - The old saying “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life” is certainly true in many ways. However, making money with your passions comes with some real disadvantages, too.

It’s wonderful to have a job that you enjoy. The attitude that we bring to the workplace really matters. Happiness improves productivity, efficiency and retention. But, is doing what you love really the only way to find that happiness professionally? There are some real downsides to earning a living doing what you love the most.

1. IT’S HARD TO TAKE BREAKS

It is a lot easier to throw yourself entirely into your work when you really love it. The problem is that having downtime is really important: breaks and vacations are healthy for us physically and mentally.

When you are super passionate about what you do, it can be really hard to turn it off at the end of the day. If and when you ever do step away from the actual work, ideas are still floating around in your mind.

You may even find that thoughts of work distract your mind when you’re asleep. Sure, in some ways it’s really wonderful to be so consumed with work that you love. But, it can also be really exhausting.

2. OTHER ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE SUFFER

Maintaining good work-life balance isn’t just about managing stress. There are other reasons to hold on to the goal, even when you really love what you do.

No matter how much you enjoy your job, you need to have other things in your life, too. It’s easy to ignore family, friends, hobbies, exercise, etc., when you find so much joy at work. Do that long enough, and you’ll stop growing as a person.

3. INTENSE HAPPINESS CAN DAMPEN CREATIVITY

Too much happiness can backfire on you.

4. YOU MIGHT EARN LESS

When you focus on doing what you love, you tend not to focus as much on other things — like pay, for example. There’s a certain amount of privilege involved in even thinking about work this way in the first place. If you enjoy the luxury of being able to prioritize “doing what you love,” it might also be a good idea to remind yourself that working is also about earning a paycheck.

It’s wonderful to be fulfilled by your job. But when that’s your focus, you could find that more practical compensations, like your paycheck, could really suffer.

5. PASSIONS SHIFT AND CHANGE

Despite the drawbacks, there are still a lot of advantages to choosing a job that really excites you. However, don’t forget to take into consideration the fact that passions grow and change.

By all means, enjoy your job. Just don’t be surprised, if one day, you start to feel differently about it. Something that you thought you’d enjoy doing forever may only fulfill you for a few years or maybe even a couple decades. Then you could be ready for something else.

This is another good reason to keep other aspects of your life going. What would happen if you put absolutely everything into your job and then fell out of love with it? Better to spread the love around, and find joy in all aspects of your life.